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Friday, September 08, 2006

Erring on the Side of Hidden Harm: The Granting of Domestic Violence Restraining Orders

By David Heleniak

On September 19, 2005, Yvette Cade went before Judge Richard A. Palumbo seeking an extension of a domestic violence restraining order against her husband, Roger Hargrave. Palumbo, whether from confusion, clerical error, or a genuine belief that the extension was unwarranted, dismissed the restraining order. One month later, Hargrave walked into the cell phone store where Cade worked, doused her with gasoline, and set her on fire.

Two weeks after the attack, Palumbo was removed from all domestic violence cases and placed on administrative duty. On July 20, 2006, Cade was interviewed by Nancy Grace on CNN’s Headline Prime. Grace, emblematic of the media reaction, introduced the interview with:

Tonight, a primetime exclusive. She went before a trial judge and begged for help, begged for protection. He refused to hear her pleas for help. And then her nightmare came true. Her estranged husband came to her office and set her on fire. But against all odds, she lived, and tonight she wants justice. And PS, to the judge that sentenced her to being burned alive, Maryland judge Richard Palumbo, you are in contempt!

Adding to this, one of Grace’s other guests, Congressman Ted Poe, commented: “Well, Nancy, you know I believe that judges need to be accountable for their actions just like we make criminals accountable. And this judge, whether it’s a mistake or incompetence on his part, he needs to leave the bench.” A judicial misconduct hearing scheduled for the end of August was cancelled when Palumbo announced he planned to retire on August 4th because of health problems.

Whether or not the horrific criminal act committed by Hargrave would have been prevented had Palumbo extended the restraining order, the Yvette Cade tragedy and the ensuing backlash against Palumbo is likely to have just one result. As if things weren’t bad enough already in the family courts, judges are going to be even more likely to grant restraining orders, regardless of the facts, rather than risk being held responsible for a similar tragedy.

Economists have long realized that Food and Drug Administration (FDA) officials, in deciding whether to approve a drug, face the possibility of making two errors--they can approve a drug that turns out to be unsafe and/or ineffective, type I, or they can disapprove an effective drug that is, in fact, safe, type II--and have an incentive to make one type of error over the other.
A classic example of type I error, given by former FDA official Henry I. Miller, M.D., is the FDA’s approval in 1976 of the swine flu vaccine.

Although the vaccine was effective at preventing influenza,… it had a major side effect that was unknown at the time of approval: temporary paralysis from Guilain-Barré Syndrome in a small number of patients. This kind of mistake is highly visible and has immediate consequences--the media pounces, the public denounces, and Congress pronounces. Both the developers of the product and the regulators who allowed it to be marketed are excoriated and punished in modern-day pillories: congressional hearings, television news magazines, and newspaper editorials.

A classic example of Type II error, given by economist Walter E. Williams, is the FDA’s failure to approve the use of beta-blockers, available in Europe since 1967, until 1976.

In 1979, Dr. William Wardell, a professor of pharmacology, toxicology and medicine at the University of Rochester, estimated that a single beta-blocker, alprenolol, which had already been sold for three years in Europe, but not approved for use in the U.S., could have saved more than 10,000 lives a year…. Grieving survivors of those 10,000 people who unnecessarily died each year don’t know why their loved one died, and surely they don’t connect the death to FDA over-caution. For FDA officials, these are the best kind of victims--invisible ones.

Economist Thomas W. Hazlett sums it up this way: “Type I deaths result in headlines reading, ‘FDA-Approved Drug Kills Pregnant Mother, Congressional Hearings Slated.’ Type II deaths don’t generate headlines, or even little blurbs. There are no visible victims to lay on the regulator's doorstep when potential beneficiaries are only statistical probabilities.”

As Miller confides, “Because a regulatory official's career might be damaged irreparably by his good faith but mistaken approval of a high-profile product, decisions are often made defensively--in other words, to avoid type 1 errors at any cost.”

Although it is not politically correct to say so, women can and do use false allegations of domestic violence to gain sole custody and to get their children to hate and fear their fathers. Even when a restraining order doesn’t snowball into complete parental alienation, a judge’s declaration that a father is an abuser can permanently tarnish his image in his child’s eyes. The damage to father/child relationships and to children’s mental health caused by the overzealous entering of restraining orders, however, is seldom if ever reported, while the harm caused by overtly violent acts following the failure to enter restraining orders most certainly is.

Just like FDA officials worrying about the headlines, judges deciding whether to enter domestic violence restraining orders have their careers to think about in addition to the merits of the particular cases before them. When in doubt, they err on the side of hidden harm.

Facts should be determined by several fresh, open minds, not one with a career on the line. Jurors, relatively anonymous one-time actors in the judicial system, are far less concerned with extraneous matters than are judges. In the wake of the Yvette Cade tragedy, it is more critical than ever that juries, not judges, be used to decide when domestic violence restraining orders are warranted.

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David Heleniak is an attorney in Morristown, NJ, and the author of “The New Star Chamber: The New Jersey Family Court and the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act.”

4 Comments:

At 9/09/2006 05:45:00 PM, Blogger NEP Admin said...

Both "errors" (that of expecting the court to "protect" one from an obviously criminal mind and expecting the FDA to perform omniscient duties) speak to the real underlying problem with American society: Learned and desired social helplessness conflicting with fraudulent dreams of a utopian fantasy.

If it weren't so tragic it'd be laughable: Life is simply hazardous. Life is terminal. "Begging" a judge to protect one from a psychopathic murderer before the fact? Demanding the FDA to rule absolutely perfectly over otherwise private choice and lives? Placing both under perpetual threat of liable?

Like I say, it'd be outrageously funny if it weren't so tragic. Tragic both by the inevitable outcomes of living on planet Earth with its myriad risks, and tragic in the sense that these "victims" think they can now seek damages.

Next thing you know we'll all be suing over spilled cups of hot coffee.

Grow up America. Grow up and realize that you're priviledged to be both alive and somewhat free. In a very real sense, you deserve neither -- in the great scheme of things they're gifts for as long as they last. I suggest you change your way of thinking before your loony expectations of others sends us all into servitude.

 
At 9/11/2006 09:36:00 AM, Blogger The Stark Raving Viking said...

If you want accountability of the courts and of police and if you go to elected officials proposing laws to make it so, you just might be arrested on trumped up charges and railroaded to prison.

I did, try doing a word search on Steven G. Erickson

 
At 10/04/2006 09:01:00 PM, Blogger Alex S. Gabor said...

The article by David Heleniak is poignant to say the least.

Poor Yvette, what could she possibly have done to her ex to make him want to kill her?

In American society there is no justification for killing unless you are President Bush and have access to weapons of mass destruction and biological chemical weapons, and have been given a message from God to invade foreign lands.

Judge Richard A. Palumbo, the poor fellow, must be too old to be a judge.

Can judges actually be non partisan, non politically motivated? Can you really blame judges who get paid by the government to administer justice?

Roger Hargrave on the other hand is a sick man. How could he possibly think that dousing someone with gasoline would be some sort of fair justice for whatever rage was boiling inside him. This is just another manifestation of insanity. Was he on drugs or something?

Sure, interview Cade, and don't talk to the judge or to the perpetrator (despicable as his act was), Nancy Grace should go to Fox News where there is "fair and balanced" reporting. (joke)

Congressman Ted Poe was right, the judge needs to leave the bench, in fact, the entire judicial system in America needs changing.

If Judges served as volunteers, you would see a lot more justice, less crime, and less suffering in America. The money factor prejudices too many cases.

So now Palumbo is retired and has no further responsibility in the matter. Judges, according to various laws cannot be sued, but they can be held accountable.

If you are a woman requesting a restraining order against a man, whether the judges are men or women, there is a 99% probability that the Judge will automatically grant the request for the order, whereas if you are a man requesting a restraining order against a woman, there is a 99% chance that the request will be denied unless the other side has a chance to file a response before it goes into effect. It does not matter if the judge is male or female. What matters is who is filing the complaint.

In other words, woman are more likely to get ex-parte restraining orders granted than men, particularly in divorce and family law cases.

Just like the metaphor Heleniak used by citing the FDA examples, a judge can err by approving a restraining order based on false allegations, or deny a restraining order which results in the further harm or death of the Petitioner.

In either case, there is usually not a sufficient preponderance of evidence when such cases are initially filed.

Most of them are based on opinion, conjecture, hearsay evidence, but they are granted anyway especially if you are a woman filing against a man.

The media only pounces when a story carries more than a few ounces of weight with the general audience.

The public usually denounces without sufficient knowledge or proof and bases most of its opinion on faulty logic and missing data.

The conflicts created by the medias' inaccurate reporting tends to skew the perception of the public, and the public always invents informaton when it is lacking.

Congress pronounces from both sides of its' mouth and still has a lower approval rating than Bush.

They can pronounce all they want, it will not change the court system in this country as long as Judges, Clerks, Lawyers and anyone involved in the "criminal" justice system continue to garner fat annual paychecks for basically pushing papers around that wrap nooses around peoples necks and destroy lives, regardless of which side of a case one finds themselves.

Getting paid to administer justice is a conflict of interest.

Although public sentiment is growing, you still don't see all that many judges, lawyers, clerks, and people who work in the myriad layers of the national, state and local judicial systems in this country getting excoriated and punished in modern-day pillories: congressional hearings, television news magazines, and newspaper editorials.

In this country politics cannot be removed from money, and money cannot be removed from justice. O.J. Simpson proved that once and for all.


It may soon be more politically correct to say that women can and do use false allegations of domestic violence to gain sole custody and to get their children to hate and fear their fathers.

My mother used to tell me what a horrible man my father was constantly as I grew up. She died when she was 38 of cancer.

Perhaps that was her justice. And yes he did beat the pulp out of me on more than one occaision, but I still loved him.

If a child has the great capacity to love, it will love no matter what is done to it. That is why mothers can scream and yell at their children, make them cry and suffer at all manner of verbal and physical abuses, and they still love her.

When a restraining order doesn’t snowball into complete parental alienation, a judge’s declaration that a father is an abuser can permanently tarnish his image in his child’s eyes.

What is really missing here is that both parents are usually abusive in any family law matter but the media focus is always on one side or the other.

Most abusive parents never grew up. They are like two siblings fighting over who gets to play the next new video game on the console when there is only one computer in the house.

For one parent to point the finger at the other before the other gets to point the finger back only results in teaching children to carry on being children and never really grow up.

It sticks them in time, keeps their attention trapped in trauma and gradually erodes the joy of being a child and growing up.

Heleniaks' statment that "damage to father/child relationships and to children’s mental health caused by the overzealous entering of restraining orders is seldom if ever reported, while the harm caused by overtly violent acts following the failure to enter restraining orders most certainly is," points to the media flaws.

It may be true enough, but what the media is really missing here is that it takes two to tango. A fight is not a fight unless there are at least two parties involved, and usually, there is false information, misunderstanding and perhaps even a third party, hidden from view of both parents that keeps the conflict in perpetual motion.

That third party could even be a child who has learned to manipulate one or the other parent into getting what it wants from the parent who is usually the "good guy".

Heleniaks' statement that, like the FDA officials worrying about the headlines, judges deciding whether to enter domestic violence restraining orders have their careers to think about in addition to the merits of the particular cases before them. When in doubt, they err on the side of hidden harm.

If judges, jurors, clerks, lawyers, and legal judicial system workers were paid on statistics which resulted in fewer crimes, fewer conflicts, and fewer errors of judgement, they would work themselves out of their jobs.

They are all paid to create more conflict, not less...thus you have what any rational human being would jokingly call a truly "criminal justice" system.

I agree that facts should be determined by several fresh, open minds, not one with a career on the line. Jurors, relatively anonymous one-time actors in the judicial system, are far less concerned with extraneous matters than are judges.

Surely in the wake of the Yvette Cade tragedy, it is more critical than ever that juries, not judges, be used to decide when domestic violence restraining orders are warranted, but then you would have to pay 12 people instead of just one, and the courts are already so backed up, it would only give time for real abusers to strike again.

The answer lies in the money. The price of freedom is justice and real justice is priceless.

 
At 5/06/2007 11:59:00 PM, Blogger Sean said...

I disagree with the previous poster that, what we're "really missing here is that it takes two to tango. A fight is not a fight unless there are at least two parties involved." In fact, an divorce that might otherwise be a candidate for conciliatory resolution must be tendered to the court if only one party wants the dissolution to be contentious. However, I do agree with the previous poster that, "usually, there is false information, misunderstanding and perhaps even a third party, hidden from view of both parents that keeps the conflict in perpetual motion." That 'third-party' is the attorney[s] and/or court-appointed expert[s], who financially benefit from the billable hours of perpetuated acrimony. (Grotman & Thomas, 1990). The divorce industry in Colorado, for example, has been analyzed and exposed at http://knowYourCOURTS.com and, I suspect, is probably very similar in most other states.

 

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